what makes a buddy a buddy?

i believe we all have our own friends around us.
some friends are just hi-bye friends.
some are get-along-well friends.
some are tooling friends.
some are real friends.
some friends aren't real.

hi-bye friends are those who u meet once a while,
where u greet, wave, or smile to,
and then you do not really go further anymore.

get-along-well friends are those who are
with you sometimes, they make you feel ok when
u're with them. but deep inside, what they REALLY
think, you'll never know.

tooling friends, haha. these are plenty scattered
around in our world today as we grow. they often
manipulate things around to suit them and what
they realli think are about themselves.

real friends, i miss/love u guys.

so how far a friend can go?
depends on what category friends i label as above?
some ppl prioritize frens to even their gf/bf
some ppl can wake up in the middle of the nite
to help their friends.
some even willing to pay off debts of their friends.
some wouldn't even bother lending u a penny.
some would even try courting their friend's bf/gf.

so, be careful when u make friends.

4 Comment(s):

Reena September 14, 2008 at 9:03 PM  

my mom once said;
朋友是拿来利用的
till now i m not sure whether she
is right
i don like labelling
as long as we do our part
wat they think is not our business

yikoko September 14, 2008 at 9:44 PM  

well said, thx for the advices.

"朋友是拿来利用的" translation =>
( friends are to be manipulated )
i remember some friends told me da exact thing also. sigh. i wonder do they realli mean it?

aikz, juz do our part. n stop thinking wat other ppl think! yay yay!!

KID September 15, 2008 at 9:54 PM  

oi...who who manupulate u...lai tell me...
i call zebra(in cantonese)go "pek sei" them...lai lai
wakakakakakakakakaka...long time no war liao...XD

miao September 26, 2008 at 11:29 PM  

lai lai ? sound so familiar ...

want ball ar ... lai lai ... come and take ~!

this column,

is for me and u to say anything u wan... come on, bring it on~